Tuesday 24 November 2009

Don't forget about the men...

Several universities, including Manchester University and Oxford, have recently launched 'men's groups' - exclusive male groups that will "celebrate and explore the concept of masculinity". Not surprisingly, this has provoked outrage by many. Prominent feminists say these men's groups undermine efforts to achieve equality and that society in general is already male-oriented. Herstorian says: it's true that most social spaces are male-oriented. Which is exactly why we need men's groups to discuss masculinity and traditional gender roles. Alex Linsley, founder of the men's group at Oxford explains:
"There is so much conflicting information for men. There is massive confusion as to what being a man means, and how to be a good man. Should you be the sensitive all-caring, perhaps the 'feminised' man? Or should you be the hard, take no crap from anybody kind of figure?

Neither of those are particularly useful paradigms. But there's perhaps things we could learn from both perspectives."

If feminists really want to achieve equality, then they have to develop a more nuanced, complex understanding of the subordination of women - namely, how it is made possible by dominant female and male gender archetypes. Social equality for women is unlikely to be achieved simply by overthrowing old notions about what women should do, be and want. We need a similar revolution in how we think men should behave and what we think masculinity should mean.

1 comment:

  1. WELL SAID. My immediate reaction to these "men's groups" was "thank God!" Someone is finally taking the initiative to start dialogues about GENDER qualities and inequalities, rather than just discussing the status of women. Absolutely agreed that if women want feminism to evolve, we HAVE to understand that feminism MUST include men!!

    Having said that, I sincerely hope these men's groups do the job that they're supposed to do. I hope they end up being havens for men to go and discuss how they feel about gender and society. I hope they help men feel comfortable to talk about all the issues that constantly seem to be bubbling under the surface. And I hope that the talk doesn't descend to woman-bashing, just as I encourage ANY female conversation not to descend to the low level of man-bashing.

    ReplyDelete